You can’t claim to be good if you’ve never been tempted to be bad. You can’t
claim to be faithful if you’ve never had the opportunity to be unfaithful.
Integrity is built by defeating temptation to be dishonest, humility grows when
we refuse to be prideful and endurance develops everytime you reject the
temptation to give up.
Here is a sweet truth: "Someday, someone will walk into your life and make you
realize why it never worked out with anyone else." Here is the bitter catch:
"When you kept on waiting but nobody came, it means that you’ve already let that
one pass you by."
Don’t shield yourself from pain, never fear pain either. Face whatever it is
that comes your way. Don’t be afraid to stumble and fall, to cry and get hurt.
Dread not those helpless moments, when you can’t even fight your tears back, and
all you can do is stare at something and let time pass. You can only understand
happiness after you’ve felt pain. Life is not fair, it never was, and it won’t
ever be. All we can do is to live it to the fullest.
The Lowdown on Cheating
Why we do it — and how to recover.
Why Men and Women Cheat
Infidelity is one of the most wrenching experiences a couple can
endure. It can destroy families, crush spirits, and break quite a few
plates. It causes pain not just to the betrayed, but usually to the
cheater as well.
So why do people do it? Experts say that the reasons fall into two
main categories. The first has to do with the relationship — there’s
either an emotional disconnect or the couple’s sex life isn’t
satisfying to one partner. The second reason has nothing to do with the
couple. Rather, one partner simply wants the excitement of an affair,
needs an ego boost, or just feels entitled to have more than one sexual
partner. "Sometimes, you find someone who has a good sexual
relationship with his or her partner and yet has an affair because sex
is so important to them that they look for it wherever they can,"
